I find that doing things like this can be extremely helpful! I did something similar to this, but I just never posted it. Very well done.

Very you politely but strongly said that hes free but the question "is he ready to move on himself?"

Beautiful letter - loved the ending, the finality was amazing 'I've got good reasons, there's no need to respond to this'... very definate, a contrast to much of the letter body. Liked it heaps mate

-TheDJ