Yes, generally when someone dies you grieve for yourself because you miss them and yes, I have been guilty of saying that I am deeply sorry for your loss. Trying to reach your soul.

It is difficult when you lose someone that you love, someone close to you and you had the right to feel your pain.

Also, please don't think that I am telling you to avoid the pain which sometimes looking at it, if feels like I have and I am sorry for that seriously.

I want you to face your pain, acknowledge it, forgive it - and then and only then you can release it and let it go.

I trust that you realize that I still c... for ...

There is nothing to compare to when you lose someone you love.I'm sorry about your Grandfather.

Wow.

Wow i am really sorry. you have the heart of a writer