Okay, I want to do my helping thing I will do what I can without my I... sorry however I want all to be okay for you. So guy/girl - I can find out later in your story... if you wish to. Drugs based on the psychology of the thing ... when things that are tramatic in a character's story things like that are done. I won't lay judgement on anything that the character has done.

I wish that the character would realize that situations had an affect on the psyche and then other choices occur for the character. The character is human, human is to Err. (So do you think that I am going to put the character down because in his human life he made some mistakes? Because wouldn't that really just be petty on my part toward the character?)

I want the character to feel comfortable expressing what the character feels comfortable with and if somethings have to wait until later than that is up to the character.

I really wish that the character wouldn't be so hard on her/his self. However I do understand that when something affects a character to their core, their being - it has a tremendous affect on that character - hence the character being hard on her/his self.

Hopefully this helps out the character in the story.