You
say it’s the weak way out. That tells me right there that you have
never felt it, never gone through it, never had a loved one lost to
it. You’ve never felt the pain, yet you sit there and argue with me
that it’s weak. That you could easily work your way through it. I
doubt it. Suicide, and depression aren’t that simple. It makes me
even more upset that you’d say this in front of another friend, who
is trying to overcome it, and say it without thought or care. It’s
not weak. It gets tough. Working through it will make you stronger,
but its not exactly ‘only the strong survive.’ Some of the
strongest emotional people that I know just can’t take it. You get
stronger working through it, but you aren’t working through it
because you’re strong. You couldn’t do it if you had to. It’s
sad that I have to say that about someone I consider a friend, but I
do. I truly believe it. You can’t take the simple things, yet you
think you could overcome a depression, and not take the ‘weak’
way out?? Right. Let me know how that turns out. Suicide isn’t
weakness. It’s there. It happens. It’s hard to cope with, and
if you really feel it’s the best option, let it be, but listen to
everyone who cares enough to listen first. They can help you get
through it, but you have to have the willpower. YOU have to be the
one to make that last choice. YOU have to do it. Not them. It’s
not the weak way out. It never has been. You try, and make it
through something that tough, and then answer that. You don’t have
the willpower it takes. You might think you do, but you don’t know
how wrong you are. You will never know until you stare it right in
the face. Then you’ll be rethinking, ‘only the strong survive.’ You get stronger through it, not before it, so don’t even begin to
argue. Suicide knows no strength.