Now, before you actually manage to go out with girls and do all of the things you want to do, there’s several things that you actually have to know. The most important of these things is yourself.

What do you like about yourself? What do you dislike about yourself? What do you dislike about yourself that you’ll actually work on? What do others see in you that isn’t real? What are you looking for in a woman?

If you don’t know these things, you really won’t know yourself or what in the hell it is that you want, so you’ll end up having girls who don’t have what you want falling for someone that you aren’t. That’s a pretty damn good recipe for utter failure.

Now, I know those are hard questions, so I’ll use myself as an example. Come up with at least five to ten examples and write them down somewhere you can find them EVERY DAY. Review them and reflect on them. And actually change what you don’t like about yourself.

‘ “OMG you said I don’t have to change who I am!” ’ ?

Yeah, I did. You don’t have to change. It’s just good to eliminate your weaknesses.

What do I like about myself?

Sense of humor, charisma, determination, loyalty, intelligence, intuition, empathy, confidence, willingness to try new things, sense of adventure, creativity, trustworthiness

What do I dislike about myself?

Bad temper, lame jokes, overly sarcastic, bitter, slacker, inferiority complex, angsty, apologizes too much, can’t think of ten things I dislike about myself ( XD XD .... bite me.)

What do I dislike about myself that I’ll actually work on?

Overly sarcastic, lame jokes.

Hey, did you hear that one about this guy who went to heaven? He sees this guy surrounded by girls and asks, “Who’s that?”

St. Peter says, “Oh, that’s God. He thinks he’s Z-Dub.”

What do others see in you that isn’t real?

A conservative, a gay guy, a girl (no, really, someone thought I was a girl)

What are you looking for in a woman?

Loyalty, sense of humor, creativity, trustworthiness, good looks, confidence, loves me.

Well, I have a girlfriend with all of those qualities. So I’m blessed already. (and we're planning on getting married in a few years!)