I was a sheltered child growing up. Living in a small place with six or so people, no friends. I was always close to my family. I'd follow what they said without question. I never had a mind of my own.
After starting college, it continued. At least until Rose moved in. She taught me and forced me to decide for myself. I'm still working on getting my own mind, but at least I'm able to somewhat decide on what I want to do. Without her, I could be somewhere and not know what the hell to do with myself.