Introduction

I’m writing this guide for all the boys who just don’t know what to do about girls. I know from experience that every so often a boy can be hurtful, even cruel to a female and not realize it. This guide will explain how to know if a girl has a crush on you, how to deal with your girlfriend, how to know if your girlfriend is cheating on you, how to break up without being to harsh, and the proper language to use when speaking to a female. I hope you find this guide helpful in the future!

Caitlin

The Boys’ Guide to Girls:

A guide to teach boys how to deal with girls

How to Tell If She Likes You

Okay, so, there’s this girl in your class who acts really weird around you. Does she like you? Perhaps. How can you tell? Like this. Does she talk to you? If she does, does she stutter or act shy? Does she stare at you when she thinks your not looking? Does she flash you a smile every chance she gets? If you said yes to any of these questions, then someone has a crush on you! Talk to her, try to get to know her a bit more. Just don’t pressure her if she acts shy. Just be kind and chat a little, like you would with your friends. Then after a while, you’ll be able to tell for yourself if she really likes you. Another way to tell if a girl likes you: Does she pick on you and make fun of you for no reason at all? Does she try to get on your nerves all the time? Does she act like a total bitch to your face? Does she try to make you mad at her and make you yell at her? If so, then she might have a crush on you! Amazing, yes, but its true. She’s trying to get your attention! She wants you get mad and yell at her because she likes the attention she’s getting from you! What can you do? Don’t get mad at her, of course! Next time she starts making fun of you, ask her if you can talk in private. If she refuses, pass her a note in class or give it to one of her friends to give to her. Tell her that you wish she would stop making fun of you. Tell her it really annoys you. Say anything to make it clear that do not want her harassing you but try not to be too harsh. If she likes you she may stop. If that’s the case, and like her too, tell her!

How to Deal With Your Girlfriend

You’re on a date with your new girlfriend, and she suddenly starts telling you about all the things she used to do with her old boyfriend. You think where did this come from? Why is she talking about him? She dumped him! (Or the other way around)The truth is, she’s trying to see how much you really like her! Don’t panic, don’t panic… just do something that will show her you love her! Give her a hug or kiss her, just hold her hand! Anything, right at that moment, to tell her you love her. What you don’t want to do is change the subject or show in any way that you’re uncomfortable talking about her ex-boyfriend. Don’t talk about other girls around her, she might start competing and it just screws up the relationship.

If your girlfriend is experiencing a hardship in her life (such as a death in the family) don’t put it off when ever she tries to talk about it! Especially if she’s an emotional kind of girl. The worst thing you can do is make her feel like you don’t care. Listen to her when she talks about it, let he know you’re always there for her when she needs to talk, and let her know you’ll gladly be her shoulder to cry on!

Mood sings are pretty common with girls… they can also be a boyfriend’s worst Nightmare… your girlfriend could go from extremely happy to tears in a matter of seconds! Scary, yes, very. If your girlfriend has a mood swing, just try to deal with it the best you can and hope (if she when from happy to sad, angry, annoying, or annoyed with you) she goes back to happy soon! If she becomes sad, just talk to her and try to cheer her up. If she becomes angry, or annoyed, give her some space; let her calm down on her own. She’ll come back when she’s ready.

Even though you might want to spend every second of your time with her, your girlfriend might want to hang with her friends for a while. Try not to be over protective and give her some freedom and trust. If you don’t trust her then you won’t be able to do anything happily. She’ll feel like you’re always breathing down her neck, always watching her to make sure she doesn’t do anything you don’t like, and give her any freedom. Doing this really screws up the relationship.

Cheating

(This belongs in a category of its own!)

Sometimes, you might get the feeling your girlfriend is cheating on you. You can never really know unless you catch her doing something with another boy that only boyfriend and girlfriend are supposed to do. If your girlfriend is spending a lot of time with another guy, it doesn’t always mean she’s cheating. It may just mean she has a guy friend. You know, like, a friend who just happens to be a boy. If she is spending so much time with him you feel like you’re being cast off and she doesn’t care, voice your concern. Tell her how you feel. You can never, ever be certain you are being cheated, like I said before, unless you catch her doing something inappropriate with another boy.

How do you deal with cheating? You know she’s been cheating on you. So what you do is, on your next date or sometime when the two of you are alone, say to her “I know you’ve been cheating on me, I want to know why, how long, and what you’ve been doing with this boy.” If she doesn’t tell you then I’m sorry to say, it’s time to break up… can you make up after she cheats on you? Of course you can!! Is there a possibility you can be boyfriend and girlfriend again? Absolutely! If she swears she wont do it again, then I don’t see why the two of you shouldn’t be in a relationship anymore… if she breaks her promise, though, it’s time to say good-bye for good.

Breaking Up

You’re starting to realize that you and your girlfriend just don’t have the magic you used to… and you think it’s time to move on. How do you tell her? Will she be mad? Or does she feel the same way? If this is how you feel, just tell her! If you don’t, you’ll feel stuck. You will be very unhappy and you won’t know what to do. Go to your girlfriend and say “I don’t think our relationship is working out anymore. I think if we break up, we’ll both be happier.” DON’T SAY “We can still be friends though.” That will just make it worse! After you break up, just be friendly like you would with any of your other friends. For the first few weeks after you break up, you might want to keep your distance from her, though. She may be sad, angry, annoyed, or her mood may be unpredictable. Just let her sulk for a while and when she seems to be over it, treat her like a friend, be kind.

The Right Language to Use When Speaking to a Girl

When speaking to your girlfriend or any random girl NEVER call her a slut, bitch, prostitute, or any other offensive slang. You might want to look at these definitions before you call a female any of these things. Slut- an offensive term for a woman thought by others to be sexually promiscuous slang. Bitch-female dog. Prostitute-(1. somebody paid for sexual intercourse. (2. Somebody who degrades talent for money. These are just a few of the many offensive terms you could call a girl. DO NOT CALL A FEMALE ANY OF THESE TERMS!!

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