Women spend a lot of time looking for that ‘perfect’ soul mate. Some women spend months, years, perhaps even decades looking for that one person that you can connect with. Then, I realized something important: I don’t have a boyfriend. I’m not looking for the right man. Sure, I’m not old enough to think about marriage, but that doesn’t mean I can be deprived of thinking about it. There’s a perfect man for me out there in the world. But how do I know which guy is perfect? What do I consider ‘my’ perfect guy? What defines ‘my’ perfect guy?

I want a husband who is very successful in his career, able to support a family if we decide to have one. I want a husband is truly passionate in his work and not employed in his line of work for the six-figure salary.

I want a husband who is open-minded to new ideas, but able to defend his opinions. I want a husband who respects my beliefs, principles and opinions.

I want a husband who is brave enough to stand up for me and protect me from dangers. I want a husband who makes sure I am safe at home when I am alone. I want a husband who would die for me.

I want a husband who can think and plan for the future. I want a husband who can ensure that our financial future is steady and secured. I want a husband saves more money than spending it.

I want a husband who will take care of the bills and the mortgage. I want a husband who doesn’t think he’s better than everyone else, even if he is better.

I want a husband to take care of me when I am ill and make sure I drink chicken soup until I get better and to make sure the house runs smoothly without me.

I want a husband who will cook delicious meats and vegetables on the barbeque grill and let me sun tan while he grills for the party. I want a husband who knows how cook and offer to cook dinner so I can watch the television.

I wan a husband who will take his family on first-class vacations including first class seats on the plane with gourmet desserts.

Yes, who wouldn’t a perfect husband? I sure do!