|My online advice diary
Author: Stuck-in-time PM
i'm a girl who is feeling depressed and in need of advice. thsi is going to be my online diary so please read it and leave me advice. Moments in my life, basically me needing to blow off steemRated: Fiction T - English - Hurt/Comfort - Chapters: 6 - Words: 9,767 - Reviews: 20 - Favs: 3 - Follows: 1 - Updated: 12-09-12 - Published: 07-05-12 - id: 3039061
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Hi everyone, Not many people have read this, but no matter, those who have read and reviewed have given some of the best advice I could have imagined. One of my reviewer's said that i should post soem of the reviews that i get, so i decided that i'll do it, kus maybe that advice could help someone else. Somebody that needs the advice just as much as me and happens to pass by so her we go:
First Entry reviews:
zatanna72: It definitely sounds like you've had more than enough rough patches in your life. The only advice I can give you is to talk to your friends, an adult, someone you trust about these feelings. Stay strong and hold your head up high. Every person is on this planet for a reason, even if you feel otherwise.
I wanted to thank you kus this was the first review i ever got for this and i made me soo happy. i took your advice to heart and it realy helped, so thank you
not Ross: "I'd imagine the whole world was one big machine. Machines never come with any extra parts, you know. They always come with the exact amount they need. So I figured if the entire world was one big machine... I couldn't be an extra part. I had to be here for some reason." Hugo (the movie)
Even though it was a quote from a movie, it was really helpful. some people think that their alone and of no use to the world, that they wouldn't be missed. I was one of those people. This advice helped me see that i'm not realy alone, that i've got to have a purpose in this world. So thank you.
sillydevilgirl: OMG im so sorry you have to live like this. if it helps im here for you and i would like to be your friend and you sound really nice and like a sweet girl who has been through alot :)
I didn't realy start to write this so people would feel sorry for me. but i could feel what you had in mind when writing this. the friend offer is realy nice and thoughtfull. i would love to be penpals through fictionpress :)
biobeach: sucks to be stuck in the past. You can't change it. You can only change what's in front of you, make it what you always wanted. I was in a similar situation, not exactly the same at all, but it was stressful.
I hope your able to look forward and able to actually get what you want and obviously what you deserve after being put through such hell.
My friends say that if your put through something so rough, it only means that you'll be even more ready to be propelled into something amazing.
Thanks for the advice, I am no longer stuck in the past or at least for the most part. Tell your friends that they were right. I havn't been propelled into something amazing but oi have found wonderfull friends and though it was short lived a lovely boyfriend. thanks for the advice.
SilenceWhispering24:Hun, I'm gonna tell you this right now. You're a load stronger than I think I ever will be. This is astonishing, all the crap you went through. Wow... *hugs* Just remember, girl, you've got a friend right here. :) I'd love to talk to you sometime, just PM me, k?
I don't think that i'm loads stronger than anyone, I broke down quite a few times and loads of times didn't feel like going on. I've read what you've gone through as well and your just as strong as me. I love those little conversations we've had :)
United Feelings: Well all you can do is wipe those tears and move on. Life is no box of chocolates and I can tell you that. When your dad kidnapped you, I hope you were very safe and you prayed every night to be free. Keep looking for that special someone, and I can insure you that you will find the special one someday that will love you forever. You are you, you is what makes you special, and don't doubt yourself in any way.
Thank you, honestly i don't remember a whole lot about that. I think that my mind sorta blocked some of those memorys. And i'm still looking for that special someone, I've got a feeling that Romeo could be something realy special for me, we're getting closer to what i think could become a relationship. Thanks for that advice. it's one of the better few, one of the ones that realy help me. I apreciate everyone who reviews this, but some advice, honestly stands out.
Second Entry reviews:
Yosa: When I was 15, I was depressed enough about my life to try and end it. Twice. I felt isolated, alone, and NOTHING was going right. There seemed no way out. When I was 16, I was going to have an operation, but had a bad reaction to the anesthesia. I died for a very short time.
Without going into much detail, I slowly came to realize that time is very fluid, and very relative (, you experience time slower and faster ) I received a "message" from others in truly terrible situations, much worse than mine. I "saw" a man in late middle age that looked familiar, but was someone I did not believe I could become. I came to realize that this terrible time for me would pass, and things would get slowly better. They have, even though I have passed trough some terrible tragedies. I have also come to really appreciate the good times.
Please believe me when I tell you that time will seem to pass quicker as you get older. The teenage years seem to creep along, the twenties pick up a little steam; after that, things seem to bop right along. A decade seems a year, sometimes.
If you can, dear friend, try to see beyond the time you're "stuck" in. Life will surprise you now and then.
Your story touched me, and I wish you the best. Prayers for you. : )
Thank you so much for sharing this with me, I hope that your all right now and living life to it's fullest. for some reason i feel like i know you. All i know is that i will forever carry your story in my heart.
sillydevilgirl: linda dosnt really souned like a friend and you need to get over nate theres one special person out there for all of us and theres one just for you so keep searching dont just mope around just cause one guy broke your heart get back up and find a new love intrest and a new bestfirend. :)
Linda was the first real friend i had here, we've had our rough patches but she always comes through in the end. at the moment i'm missing her because she's currently in england finishing her studys. I haven't seen nate in half a year kus he moved and honestly i think that helped me get over him. recently we had a conversation over chat, i asked him if he had a new girlfriend, he said that no he didn't that he learned from his mistakes, he then asked me if i had a boyfriend, i told him about romeo, he asked me if i was sure about that, i simply responed my saying that i had also learned from my mistakes. There i was atempting to patch up a broken friendship and he goes and rubbs in my face that i was a mistake, well i just threw that right back at him. he didn't talk to me again, and hasn't in a while and honestly i don't care.
biobeach: Don't say that you're pitiful. You're not.
Thanks, i don't think that as much as i used to.
Third Entry reviews:
sillydevilgirl:looks like your starting to have a better life congrats :)
I am thanks :)
biobeach:You sound better here which is good :)
I am thanks :)
UmbrellaInTheSun: You deserve better than that. A text message? And I'm glad that you stopped injuring yourself. There are so many better things to live for.
(p.s. and, as a writer, I can't help but say that you're incredible at describing everything, especially emoitons. You've got a natural talent for writing.)
Thanks, I think that it's a real low to break up with a person by text message, i mean you had a RELATIONSHIP with this person the least you could do would be break up with them to their face, and taht goes for boys and girls alike. and thank you i realy enjoy writing. :)
All I had was that one relationship...
Your life seems so difficult. It's not fair. I wish there was something I could do to help.
That Nate guy seems like a total dick-head, he needs to undergo circumcision. T_T
haha, yeah, i've had my ahere of realtionships, I think i've had around 8 boyfriends, starting from when i was 7 and me and my friend kept saying that we were boyfriend and girlfriend (boy those were the days) to the more serious relationships i've had. I'm currently 16 and have had like 2 serious relationships. I was talking to an ex of mine and i found out that her knew NOTHING about me, and we went out for 3 weeks! he thought that i like pop and rap music! I don't like those genres, I like screamo, heavymetal, rock, punk-rock and J-rock. how was it possible that in three weeks he din't evern know my last name! oh well, some dudes aren't cut out for relationships, honestly i think that he'll en up being a one night stand kind of guy for the rest of his life.
Fourth Entry reviews:
SilenceWhispering24:Give it time, girl. The best relationships are ones given time, trust me. You can't rush anything, because then the feelings aren't real. If he truly likes you, I'm sure he'll come to in time. Give him a chance.
You're awesome, you know that? You're really strong; I've never met anyone like you before. I love that you're bilingual too, I'm in Spanish 2 but I'm not that good. Like I said, I really wanna talk to you now, so yeah, PM me or whatever. :D
Thanks, i'm still waiting for that prince charming to arrive. you know between my friends and I we say that we dont want a prince charming on a white horse, that we want a Draco Malfoy on a Nimbus2000 XD
This story is so mature! I like it! Please Update soon! Maybe you can put some of the review advice at the bottom of each chapter for example:
Thank you to _ for giving me this advice!
Or something like that. My advice is a Dr. Seuss advice: Will you succeed? Yes, you will, indeed! Ninety-eight and three quaters percent guaranteed!
PS please try my story! It's called The World Of Magic. Just give me comment. Thanks :)
Thanks, you gave me the idea to post this, i looked up your story but i can't find it, sorry.