Bonjour! This is yours truly....Water Wolf Spirit!

We are gathered here today......to discuss the jerks in our lives. We all have them.

I might as well start, my ex who i was dating in a long distance relationship didn't bother to tell me that we were broken up. he didn't have the balls to tel lme that we weren't together anymore. i found out that he had another girlfriend on the week of our one month of being together, so he lied to me and pushed me away, and ignored the text messages and voice mails i left him. thinking that he could forget about me. well i told him straight up that i know about his new girlfriend and he needs to fess up the damn truth! I wrote a poem about him and what that jerk did.

This isn't even half of what he did. But I'm trying not to take up too much time.

So any ladies out there who would like to discuss jerks and how better we are off without them?

Salut,

Water Wolf Spirit

Yeah, boys are STUPID! ... i flew to see a boy that I've known for about three years, and we were kind of trying to have a long-distance relationship. he's really great in a lot of ways, but he talked me into doing things that I didn't want to do, that just aren't me, and after I got back home it took days before i could fall asleep at night, i felt so guilty....we've hardly spoken since I left last weekend, and i'm wishing that i hadn't wasted so much money on plane tickets for a disappointment. plus, i can't tell my friends that it went badly because they all thought that i shouldn't have gone anyway...but i actually talked to an ex that i'm still really close to and he helped me to deal with it, and now i'm sleeping again :)

Hey I feel some of your pain girl no worries. I'm glad that you can sleep again losing sleep over guys is horrible. My first boyfriend had gotten into this stupid fued with one of his friends and whenever i tried to help i was shoved away and had the doors "slamed" in my face if you will. It had gotten so bad one day that i spent the whole lunch period crying in the bathroom. Once he found out that I was crying he was pretty quiet, but he never once called me over the spring break to apologize or to see if i was ok. And that was the break that I came down with food posioning. I hated that boy and didn't want to go near him, it got to where i couldn't sleep at night so i would stay up practicly all night, alot of people were concerned about me, esspecially one of my true guy friends who knew about everything that was happening. I am so grateful for him. But my first bf and I are no more, friends yes but nothing more. I wasn't going to put up with him any longer or the way he treated me. but things are all good. Every girl has at least one guy friend who is there for them to the end.

yes, very true. i'm so lucky, i have three really good, close guy friends who are always there for me when i need them. it's been really hard being so far away from them for school and not seeing them every day anymore, but i'm coping :) ....and i understand the being shut out feeling...it's so difficult sometimes to get them to talk, but it's really good that you had a true friend to help you through it!!

yes i don't know what i'd do without them. it is hard being away from them for a long time, but we make time to see each other whenever we can. and i'm glad that you have three good close guy friends that you can go to :) its something that all girls need instead of jerks who try to take advantage of us, lie to us or put us down ect.

yeah...jerks are stupid. i hate that feeling where you don't trust someone. i'm one of those naive people who likes to believe everyone, and when someone breaks my trust, it's really hard for me, so that was probably the worst thing with this guy. plus one of my guy friends tried to warn me beforehand but i ignored him because i thought that i knew what i was doing...but i'm getting over it, and so i'm not really bitter about it anymore, it was a learning experience, that's all ... it'll make me stonger :D

totally, the same is for me. i can trust easily but when that trust is broken...it takes alot for me to trust that person again. My guy friends warned me about the guy i was dating in the long distance relationship, they said he didn't "feel" right even though they never met him. and sadly i felt the same way after awhile but i tried to ignore that feeling. but they were right, i was angry for awhile and wanted to know "why?" what did i do for you to hurt me like this? what did i do wrong? but i'm pretty much over it, just alittle hurt but i don't show it nor do i care to. it did make me stronger and now i can use my experience to help out my friends if they ever get into a long distance relationship :)

guys can be serious pain in the necks, but we live with them, laugh with them, cry with them, hate them and yet love them. but only the certain ones make it past the hate part :D

ha...true story. i really liked that last section...it was really beautiful...and accurate!

merci

I feel cursed to be a guy.

All the jerks out there give guys a bad name, and girls assume your a total stupid idiot womanizing dum*ss the second they see you..

I may not be beautiful outside, but I hate being insulted about it.

What rly sucks is going through school and knowign every single girl hates me just because I am a guy.

I try talking to one and they treat me like dirt, like I'm this idiot, and their so much smarter, and etc...

In fact, I am very smart wit computers, I mention C, C++, Perl, PHP, HTML, CSS, JavaScript, and Java, and I get blank stares.

(All of which involve making programs, or websites, or enhancing websites.)

I don't dress like I'm gay, or I'm a geek, I dress casual (T-Shirt and Jeans 24/7, occasional hoodie) and suddenly I'm the biggest jerk in the world.

Especially, ESPECIALLY to girls who are completely popular, or try to be "gangsta" like 80% of guys who give guys a bad name.. and it sucks!

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I only have a few friends that are girls, no guy-friends, nuthin.

And most of my friends are online.

Such as Zina, Cassandra(My Long-Distance GF), Rose, and then my actual real life friends

A total nerd Megan, and then Bianca... and my GF (That cass knows about no worries) Ayla. (Cass told me to go out with her so I wouldn't be so torn about barely ever able to Cass, as Cass lives in Sandy Beach Alberta (I lived only an hour away about 3 years ago.. now I live in..) and I live in Sault Sainte Marie Ontario. IT SUCKS.

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Ayla and Cass have cut themselves in the past, Cass is pshycotic at times xD and I'm the only one who has refrained from fallign in any depression that deep..

However I have burnt myself (I love fire, which is why Ranz has control over fire) and I like staring at fire too.....

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Sorry for being a guy...

I know u all prob think I'm a jerk already, just for existing....

And this rather... mean post... which I apologize for being so rude.

I will stay active on the forum if I manage to get myself ungrounded..

Oh dear, i'm sorry for the way girls treat you LeadSmack. You shouldn't be upset that you were born a guy and no girl should hate you just because of it, if any girl makes a smart remark about who you are then tell them to stick it and walk away. I'm sure your a great person and the girls who are your friends must be very lucky for they have a friend that others do not.

Do not apologize for believing that you were being rude. this is a topic that i created and anyone can express themselves however they want to. I do not think you are a jerk and i dispise the males and females who tend to act "gansta" and push people around with that attitude.

So...

"Bristle your fur, and pad the ground. Make no silent howl, make it loud" don't let others wether they be male or female ** on your parade, just pull out an umbrella and keep walking and continue to be the guy you are. True there are jerks in this world but that does not mean the entire male race. And if you want another female friend I would be more than happy to be one of yours, no one should go through life without friends.

Salut,

Water Wolf Spirit

Seriously..... You'd be my friend?

Yes i would, i hope that i did not appal you by that.

Salut

No I'm not appalled, just.. meh..

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K, I'll be your friend too :)

it's official xD

Sweet, my name is Megan.

Hope things are going well for you

Salut

I think you might already know I'm RJ (Robert-John William Wood)

RJ is what everyone calls me though.

aye that i would know. gulity

lol..

anyway it'd be best if you didn't PM me using FictionPress's engine.

Use my email - Wood7136 (AT) email (DOT) adsb (DOT) on (DOT) ca

It's my school email, the only email I can use right now... sorry..

but anyway I'm headin to bed, night.

ah i see, cool beans.

night

And now to school the next morning starring KG, and WWS.

What will the day hold in store for us today?

lol..

anyway I hope to get my philosophy essay done soon... I'm sick of being grounded from the internet....

I finally remembered the password for this account, yes it's me Quill of Copper/CopperQuill/Nigu's Passion/Kitteh Guardian

This is my main account.

And I have a whole new problem....

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Me and Cassandra are "Taking a Break" and when I aksed her if she ever intended on getting together again she said probably..

i even managed to work out when our Anniversary is, Februrary 13... And I did the math and we were going out for 325 days.

(Feb 13 2008 to Jan 9 2009) I wish I could work out the exact minutes or seconds... but my calculator wouldn't be able to handle that large a number.

I plan on working out the hours though....

I've sorta... well... I lived for Cassandra... She made me really happy... on the rare occasion we could talk..

And.. well she said I made her really happy too....

And...........

*sigh* I cried for the first time in a long time last night....

And... I had my whole life planned around Cassandra..

She was going to be there all the way...

I'm.. I dunno anymore........

But I figured you guys must have gone through something like this before...

I'm not one to directly ask for help but... this time I think I need it...

As much as I hate to admit it..

well now that the names have been cleared up lol.

Never be ashamed to ask for help when you know that you are in need of it. I know we don't like to admit wanting help but somethings we just cannot go through alone and need either answers, comfort, or just someone that will listen ect. I understand how you feel right now "Taking a Break" from someone that you care about is easier said than done. Its something that most do not want to go through for its one of the worst torments a human can endure. "Heartache"

Sometimes we have to look at the reason of why this happened. Do you know why this break up has happend? or any events to cause it? My last bf, the one that made me post this topic the only question i could ask myself was...Why? what did i do? Did i make him mad? why did he do this to me?

You say that you both made each other happy, it might could be the distance that keeps you apart. I learned that one the hard way. but if she says that you will probably get back together then it shows that she still has feelings for you which is a good sign.

For now though don't push yourself to any extreme limits. Take things easy and move with it one step at a time. I don't blame you for crying, we are all human and we have to cry every now and then. even when things are bad. Try to stay in touch with her and try to be friends. I guess is all i can say.

I apologize for acting like a shrink and if i havent' been any help. I mostly just try to put myself back together and try to keep my mind of that person just until i feel OK. I can surround myself with others or i can be alone and find things to occupy myself with.

I do apologize for what has happend to you and hope that things get better. Please take care of yourself

Salut,

Megan

Thanks..

As for why...

well.. . . .... ... .. I guess talking about Ayla as much as I did may have threw her off lol...

But I was scared when I heard her voicemail on my cell.. she said she already hurt herself, said multiple times not to worry...

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I haven't been able to ask her what she meant yet...

Your welcome

well you know her more than i do lol so that might be it

"hurt herself?" oh dear that might not be good. i'm sorry, whenever a close friend of mine tells me that he's hurt him self or he's going to then i kinda tend to jump in and try to stop it....i have succeeded many times. hopefully i can continue.

Try to talk to her mate, thats all i can say for now....

You mean talk to her best friend Jinelle?

your aware of how rare you see these people online...

And Jinelle's Long distance isn't free..

He always hangs up as soon as she realizes who it is..

um not trying to be mean or anything mate but you kinda lost me there....

Cassandra and Jinelle are notoriously never online.. or if they are.. it's REALLY LATE....

hmmm thats a toughy......

oh your still online eh? Joy says I'm starting to get Carpal Tunnel Syndrome or w/e just caus e I told her I had muscle twitches in my left wrist..

I'm going to bed it's almsot 9:30 here.

aye that be true

yeah its almost 9:30 here too

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