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Blackbird552

Topic: Help me out...

A question for you girls out there. How much does physical attraction effect your relationship with a guy. For example, if you were an 8 or above on the 1 to 10 scale of hottness and I were a 3 or 4, and we got along perfectly, sharing almost everything in common and enjoying each others company, would you be set off by the unattractiveness. This is especially assuming that you could have someone better looking, but less in common at will. Please answer truthfully because I need some help. You see, if I am lower on this attractivness scale and I feel intimidated and hopeless to someone way better looking, but we get along better than you could imagine, do I have reason to worry?

#1 Dec 06th 2006, 5:42pm

Midnight Star Lights

I don't think that you have a reason to worry if your guy is truthful to you. If he really loves you are is in to you for real then it isn't going to be a problem. I am not a size 8, but a size 12 and my boyfriend still loves me the way I am. He is the sweetest guy I have ever known. He tells me not to change a thing. If he is worth it he will stay with you. I don't think you should worry about it if he is true.

#2 Dec 07th 2006, 5:08am

Midnight Star Lights

I have to say no worries and good luck to you!

#3 Dec 07th 2006, 9:22am

Blackbird552

Uh...sorry. Maybe i wasn't clear, but I am a guy. I was wondering how much girls rely on physical attractivness in deciding to begin a relationship.

#4 Dec 07th 2006, 4:53pm

Midnight Star Lights

LOL. Anyway, to me it doesn't make a differece. As for the mistake I am always half asleep all day because I never get sleep. I don't think it will matter if she really likes you. Best luck to you though. I am sure it will be okay. I mean why do you think that you are not attractive enough for her?

#5 Dec 07th 2006, 5:14pm

Midnight Star Lights

I feel bad that I thought you where a girl, but I find it funny on my part as well. I just had to say that though. I do wish you well though. I think you will be fine. If she does hurt you just know that you will always find a girl better than her. I am sure it will be fine.

#6 Dec 08th 2006, 8:39am

Blackbird552

I mean why do you think that you are not attractive enough for her?

She's just so beutiful. Its hard to talk to her anymore, cause i'm afraid of a negative reaction (ridiculous of course because its never happened before). Its just hard to think you have a chance when your that kid that people joke about ("Yeah, well HE's your boyfriend!" *general laughter*). Maybe that's just my imagination, but everyone seems so vain all the time. Good people always get ** on. My friend has asked out more girls than I can count on two hands in the past year and he's never had a girlfriend....yet ** get whoever they want. Bah, I know she's different...better. I shouldn't worry, but that's always been my flaw: worrying too much. Well, I plan on asking her out on Wednesday (the 13th...I think) so I'll let you know how it goes.

Sorry to ramble. Ya just gotta let it out sometimes...

Thanks for listening.

#7 Dec 08th 2006, 10:58pm

Royal Bliss

I'd save dating for College if I were you... or at least when you're out of high school.

#8 Dec 08th 2006, 11:48pm

Midnight Star Lights

I wish you the best on this one. If she says, "no," don't let that get you down either.

#9 Dec 10th 2006, 10:47am

Erilev

If your friend has had to ask out that many girls, then he sucks at relationships. If you feel insecure enough to talk to your girl friend, you need to sit down and really talk to her. Just ask her, and explain how you feel. (tell her you get nervous because she is beautiful) She will probly go 'awww' and then will reassure you that she likes you the way you are, and for who you are, not for how you look (unless she is one of those shallow eye candy broads). If she is one of those girls, you need to start looking for another girl. But if you are serious about each other, then just talk to her.

And fyi dating is better in high school, because in college its all about sex and parties. You don;t want to look like an idiot, 'cause that info spreads around fast

#10 Jan 17th 2007, 6:08am

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