Wow, you just asked us not to be human.

I totally agree. Why do girls have to dress like that? It is so weird! I actually want to dress like a boy and stuff or not that great bcuz with all the thing about boys you don't really want to start something up. But I always think how I want to look a bit better. Paranoid. I get paranoid that everyone thinks I look horrible! Too paranoid is what I am sometimes but it goes away when I have friends around me and I just act like what I want to be. Boys are such a weird subject sometimes. When they were little and in middle school or something they were not even into us. Now they're flirting with us and all that. Its a bit weird when the boys just think about sex. I-D-I-O-T-S! I hope my 4 year old brother doesn't start getting perverted when he grows up.

Too true. This was great. :]

That has got to be the best, most accurate musing I have ever heard from someone! 100% true! All of it. I would review more, except I am extremely tired and it's 1:30 am.

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This made me think. Thank you for writing it.

i love this essay...it really perked me up. I haven't been feeling all that great about myself lately, THANK YOU!If only more girls thought like this...

I size up other girls too, but it never stops me from becoming friends with them. I notice their appearance, of course I do, but I don't judge them based on it. It's personality that really matters to me.

wow, so insightful...so true!

nice job, you truly impressed me )

going on my faves!

keep writing...

-kerr

Hmm...

I agree with you on some points- but not on all.

Some of the judgements here are a little harsh. I mean, not all girls just judge each other on what they wear or their chest size.

There are lots of other types of judgements- and it's not just girls at the mall.

I like that you posted this, though. It gives a lot of insight.

True True, very well writen, Though I have to admit, i do do everything that youtalked about in that story :( :P

Whoa, I would have never thought that someone would writ something like this. I mean, who really wants to discuss this stuff? I know most of the folks I'm around daily are happily comparing themselves to others... this is really good and makes some excellent points. I imagine you would see a lot if you work in the food court or at least at the mall; it's the number one place to hang out for people except around here... they just hang out in convenient store parking lots of car washes. Ah, the beauty of small town life.

Wonderful essy and quite a good point.

Wow! That's really touching, and really true. Wow! Great work!

wow. what you are saying is totally true. we are always comparing ourselves to others, striving to be the "perfect girl," or at least better than some girl we thought was ugly. of course, there's no such thing, but we still do it anyway. i often wonder why girls at the young age of 13 try to look or act older, like wearing skimpy clothing. ah, well, i blame society and media. they always tell us what would be the "perfect look."

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That is just so true! well not entirely... me and my friends dont go criticize other girls.. we can say something like "cool outfit" about some complete stranger... but the other girls in my school are much like that... guess me and my friends are just freaks... p atleast thats what we r called... .