here here. good advice

Perhaps these things don't happen really often in where I live. They don't compare. Instead, they look at other ppl and criticise. (in their minds of course)

tt's a good essay you wrote anyway...

I have been both onlookers that you described. I've been the sneering jealous you-know-what and I've been the smiling I-want-to-love-everyone. The victims of either stare never even notice me. You made some good points. We only size other girls up to knock them down b/c we feel bad about ourselves. Thanx for reviewing "Curiosity." I think I'll be back later to check out your vampire fic. I don't have time now.

Til then,

pink

Great message. I agree completely. :)

Great essay. Completedly agree with you. I never really have that problem, jeans all the way me. And plus, i's never really warm enough to wear bare midriffs in England.

You live in Pittsburgh? I lived there for a year! Ever heard of Mt. Lebanon? Big Houses. Big Gardens. Turrets.