Sexuality

Me and a friend had a discussion about my sexuality the other day,
She doesn't think my orientation is
what I claim it to be.
This kind of pisses me off. I never confirmed or denied,
I just thought that maybe I wasn't one way,
that maybe I see things differently.
I don't understand how it matters, if I claim that I am bisexual,
or pansexual,
straight,
or gay.

To me sexuality and attraction
is defined by people.
I am not attracted to a sex, I am attracted to a person,
and their personality.
Most of the time, I probably shouldn't be attracted to some of the people
I have had crushes on,
but I was.
I still don't understand why it matters though,
it is not like I actively hit on people.
Oh, well...what ever...
it is all a frame of mind, I think