Everyone thinks that they know what goes on inside of you. That they have gone through the same pain, and are trying to minimize yours. Because, hey, all pain is the same, right?
It doesn't make a difference that you two are extremely differentpeople. Or the fact you live completely different lifestyles and have had different experiences.
Nonetheless, your pain is the same as theirs. So it is not as important. They got over their pain quickly so they assume yours is gone as well, but I see different. I see how you really are inside.