Sometimes there is no logic in our lives, we do things out of the ordinary, make decisions differently because for ourselves its normal.
We do what we are used to or what we have learnt to do.
Sometimes evading a problem makes us miss the lesson that it gives from making it. For some its necessary to do this but for others its not.
We are all unique, living through the same world but from a different point of view.
Life will give you what you need when you need it. Learn live and be free.