No one can save you but yourself. You're the one who chose to drown. Others would shout, "take my hand!" as they reach out for you. You might not want to reach your hand out, and slowly destroy yourself bit by bit. Or you could just take that hand and return to the surface. Sometimes you'd let yourself drown in shallow water. People can still grab your unwilling hand, but they'd soon grow tired of holding on to someone who doesn't want to be rescued, and let go.
You're your own choice.