You know those moments when you can't think of anything to say? Those moments when someone tells you something so heart wrenching and you want to comfort them, but the words won't come. You can spend hours thinking about what to say to try and make a difference, but in the end you come up empty handed. You think that because you couldn't think of anything to say you didn't help, but in the end you realize that it's the words you didn't say that made everything better.