To continue your life, after loss, as if nothing happened, or as if you have also died, is not the way your existence should be celebrated. To continue to love others, thank and forgive them, is the best way. Do not forget the deceased, just go on with your life in their honor. Because if you forget either them or your other loved ones, is your life worth living? No. But life goes on and it only gets easier. Lead your life with love.