Transcript of a breakup via text message [unabridged]
January 2nd 7:56 a.m.
So there's something that I want to talk to u about I couldn't stop thinking about it last night
January 2nd 7:57 a.m.
January 2nd 8:02 a.m.
First I would like to say your frigin awesome. But I think it's a good thing we haven't had sex and I think it would be for the best that we don't. Your great and that's my problem I don't want to be the one to hurt you [sad face emoticon] but I would like to keep seeing u but just as friends.
January 2nd 8:05 a.m.
Can I ask what's bringing this on? Did I do something?
January 2nd 8:07 a.m.
You didn't do a thing like I said your awesome and the best girl I ever met. It's me I know how I am and I don't want to hurt you.
January 2nd 8:08 a.m.
How is it you? How would you hurt me?
January 2nd 8:13 a.m.
Well one I can't stop thinking about my ex two I'm not ready to be with some one and I don't know exactly how I would hurt you but it will happen and I don't want to.
And I really hope I'm not hurting you right now.
January 2nd 8:21 a.m.
Well it's good that your being honest with me. It's not fair to either of us to continue as we have been if your not ready/into it. I think you're a nice guy even if you don't think you are [smiley face emoticon] I'm not hurt just disappointed because I thought I was ready for another relationship but I guess like you I'm also unsure. I've really enjoyed our time together and I REALLY want to stay connected with you in whatever form that takes.
January 2nd 8:22 a.m.
That makes me happy o and this doesn't mean I'm canceling on dinner Saturday
So how's work going in this new year?
January 2nd 11:38 a.m.
Busy. Nothing's really changed since last year LOL
January 2nd 6:09 p.m.
How is your evening going?
January 2nd 6:10 p.m.
Fine. I just got home.
January 3rd 9:54 a.m.
Sry I didn't text u back last night I was driving home then passed out when I got home. How's your day so far?
R u upset?
January 3rd 3:55 p.m.
I feel confused and I feel used.
January 3rd 5:18 p.m.
[sad face emoticon]
Sry I worded that ? Wrong what's confusing you and what made u feel used? [sad face emoticon]
January 4th 4:42 a.m.
I'm confused because everything you said contradicts what you said in your text Wednesday morning. Things like "you turn me on more than any other female" and "you're worth the wait" was any of that true? Or were they just 'lines?' Also when you say you cant stop thinking about your ex that implies time. Were you thinking about that all weekend when I was over or just when we got to the hotel? I let you touch me in an intimate way and we laid together half naked which also suggests intimacy and I don't just do that with anyone. That means something to me and to find out that you weren't into it or feeling the same way makes me feel used. You were so withdrawn and rude on Tuesday I don't understand why you didn't say something sooner.
January 4th 4:23 p.m.
I'm really sry about all that and they weren't just lines they're true if they were just lines I would have stuck around long enough to have sex then bounced
but I really just don't want to be the one to hurt you and I'm really sorry about all of this
January 4th 6:49 p.m.
I don't know what to say
January 4th 7:07 p.m.
[sad face emoticon]