- Expectations Are Premeditated Resentment -

there's a hole in my heart

that only the pain you left fills

it isn't expected that we forget,

or necessarily forgive

but letting go is the only way to live

"An expectation is a premeditated resentment."

- Courage to Change

Found that quote through an al anon meeting - for those of you who don't know what that is, it's for families/friends/etc. of alcoholics. One of my favorite quotes there is, aside from a couple others.